The self-help industry is a 10+ Billion-dollar industry. You are surrounded by self-help content and it’s all about money nothing else. During your lifetime, how many people have truly helped you or how many people have a good will for you? Even the people that you paid for getting an education, did they give it enough to help you? There are very few people who truly want good for you and generally, they are around you. They pray for you and wish the best for you. Always ask this question, what is the other person getting in return? If you get the answer to this question and there are no monetary or influence gains to the person then you can truly be sure that there might be goodwill involved.
Every single person wants good for themselves. We want to be successful materially, emotionally, and spiritually. Only a sick person will opt for self-harm and if you are a good person, you will even want good things to happen to people around you. Mediocrity and unfulfilled desires drive this industry.
Very few people truly want to help you. Do not fall for this trap.